Gao Yanmin, a woman who was *abducted 21 years ago and *deceived into marriage, is *pleading to be left alone after her story *ignited online controversy. Opinions about Gao’s experience have divided people into two camps. One thinks Gao’s personal wishes should be respected and it is wrong to force her to give up her present life and family. The other thinks if Gao is not forcibly removed from her present situation and her abductors are not seriously punished, there will be other victims in the future.