I BELIEVE in ambition, but not greed. I have a boyfriend who's short, fat and with a tummy. Actually, he's a little bit shorter than me. I'm finishing my master's degree and he's still struggling to get in. Right now he's in Guangdong and I'm in Chongqing. I'm looking for promising jobs and he's still stuck teaching in a high school. It sounds like we're not a match, but I'm sticking with him, because he feels like my family, and that's enough.