ELLA Chen and her 36-year-old Malaysian boyfriend, Alvin Lai, have announced they are getting married. The 30-year-old actress and singer has been showered with blessings (祝福) from both friends and strangers. Her mom, however, seems sad to see her daughter leave home. She posted (张贴) a picture of Chen, looking her usual tomboy (假小子) self, on her micro blog. Chen didn’t act quickly enough to stop her mom. But she wasn’t annoyed. She thanked her mom for her selfless love, saying: “I remain your little girl forever.”