Who should pay for the first date is a tricky question. She might be offended if he doesn’t let her pay; he might be annoyed if she doesn’t at least offer to chip in. What’s the best way to handle a first-date bill? Time magazine’s Money column recently consulted two relationship experts for help, who are Marni Battista, founder of relationship website Dating With Dignity, and Bernardo Mendez of relationship website Your Great Life TV.